hi Willow,
Sounds like you had a fun weekend.
| “ | Our problem is that if we got a good drag or duck under or take down the action stopped as one partner got and advantage. | ” |
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What we generally do in a situation where somebody has taken a big advantage is either;
1) Try all your options before conceeding or tapping out.
2) Use this disadvantage as good training for dealing with such situations. Helpful when things don't go your way in a real fight ( almost sure to happen ).
3) If you are truly defeated and stuck, then you both break away. However as soon as you break contact you resume immediately.
For example, I caught my sparring partner in a really deep underhook and rested my other arm on top of his neck with my forearm. It put him in a position where he was not balanced enough to give hard knee strikes. He could still punch me with his free arm but all I had to do was push or pull his body and the punch loses power. However, I could pretty much put in as many knee strikes as I wanted. So, instead of sitting there all day kneeing the guy ( he always gets me back, so not a good idea ), I will give a few knees, then either try to move to a new position, or push him away and resume immediately. For the person who has advantage, you get to practice safety, because as you let your opponent go he can really nail you. One of the many ways my sparring partner has worked a good defense against this technique ( I find I can only catch him with something specific once or twice, then I have to change it up or get hurt ) is to simply strike the bicep of my arm as I reach in for his neck. Very painful ! I have a whole collection of little knuckle marks from our last session.
Also, once he let me get him into position and then using his free arm he pulled the rubber knife out of his pocket and plugged me in the liver ( these sort of unexpected attacks can be a bad idea with students and a classroom situation, but with a trusted friend it is great, and I saw the attack coming as I realised that my awesome Clinch had become a trap to hold me in place ). Then he tried that again another time, but I managed to stop him.
I think the trick is that if you want to get into a continuous flow then you cannot fight exactly as it would be in a real fight. Many people then fall into the trap of the co-operative sparring partner and we all know that situation. So in some ways your partner co-operates ( as in he understands what you are both trying to gain from the flow, so he allows for things like breaking away to continue the flow ), but at the same time he must do everything he can to stop you from applying your techniques. I mean to put a good Plum clinch on my sparring partner has become very hard now, because he has learned better ways to avoid it. So you find that you are both continually upping your game.
I think also it depends on the individual. I like it when my opponent really puts on the pressure and doesn't give me an inch. Some people shut down when they train like this and their partner has to have an intuitive understanding of what their opponent can and cannot handle. If I was trying this drill with my other friend ( he likes to do these drills and sessions every now and then but he does not train regularily in any way ) I would not be as unforgiving as I am with my regular dude.
We also do clinch and grappling flows using the sticks. This is a whole other game, and things that work barehand have to be modified to make them safe to use.
In our last session we did a flow in kicking and punching range where the goal was to get your opponent to raise his elbows enough so you could kick him in the ribs. Defensively you have to avoid your opponent purposely lifting his elbow so he can drop it on your leg. We also do the toe point kick that can go around your arm and still hit the ribs. I think that kick is quite popular in Savate if I'm not mistaken. I've got bruises on my shins from all the stop kicks I got hit with in that one.
I don't know if this helps at all. It is a learning experience for me too. Maybe in a month I will have a completely different approach. For now, this is working well for me.