| Hello, all: Im not much on therapy as a means of
easing troubles. I like to bottle it up, and then let the pressure
build like a steam kettle till it spews forth in the form of heavy
drinking and sobbing under a neighbor's porch swing, but I digress.
Since you fine people are like the perfect family: always there if I
need you, but I dont need to make up excuses to get you to leave my
house; I will unload some burdens upon you. The little lady, whom
I have been with for 7 years, called it quits last night. She feels
we're too different, our work schedules differ so much we never see
each other, and she has "fallen out of love". Im trying to be positive,
it has been up and down for a year or more, anyway. Just like it takes
two to make a relationship work, it takes two to break it up. No real
fault can be laid on either side, though. We were both always faithful,
no verbal or physical abuse to speak of, blah blah. I guess we just
grew apart. I will be staying in the house for a month or so, then out
the door. We could sell the place, it's ours, afterall. I am washing my
hands of it, though. She can afford it pretty easily on her own, and
the market for selling houses is pretty horrible now. I hope to remain
friends, and life-I am sure-will go on. My only worry is how to
cope with being a batchelor again? Of course, dating is the furthest
thing from my mind, and it will be a while before I can think of being
with another woman besides the one I have been with for such a large
portion of my life. Anyway, how many here on the DL have gone through
divorce? How do you cope with living alone again? How did--when the
time came--you cope with being thrown into the dating game again? Ugh,
I do not look forward to that aspect of single life. Perhaps I will be
a confirmed batchelor, devote my life to career, MA training, and
posting goofy responses to serious thread questions on the DL. Hope all
is well out there in the community, Im off to see the lawyer, the
Wonderful Lawyer of Divorce. -Wu |
-Wu
was to go on a drugs and alcahol binge for 2 years
when i came around i had a new girlfriend
but did the moustache have anything to do withit?
a personal question
but did the moustache have anything to do withit?
Sorry to hear about things, hope it rolls along as smoothly as it can
If not, you can crash on my couch and we'll have some fun and get you sorted
Seriously though, you and all the UK DLers watch out, I will be there by year's end. By then, maybe I will have visited Georgia and Cam will have a video of him knocking me the eff out. We could laugh at it over a beer. (as long as my jaw is still intact) Hell, that's what straws and IVs are for!
-Wu